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Am I really who I say I am?

ACTUALLY NO, neither “Ash Bell” nor “abellj” is my real name! I’ve had to change it here because of the horrible way I’ve been treated by men on other emails and message boards. And if I can change it, anyone can. (Please note this is entirely an opinion piece.) But that’s the WHOLE problem with… Continue reading Am I really who I say I am?

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Size Matters To A Feminist (by Nicky Douglas)

Size Matters To A Feminist (by Nicky Douglas)   THERE ARE WOMEN who say that writing about “size” is the antithesis of feminism. That we should be embracing everyone, regardless of age, gender, ability, colour, creed, sexuality – or size of genitalia. Well, metaphorically YES but, literally NO I’ll stand up for anyone who’s been… Continue reading Size Matters To A Feminist (by Nicky Douglas)

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Virginity Really Doesn’t Matter…Seriously it Doesn’t

  I started online dating in the spring of 2015. I thought it was okay. There were a lot of guys looking for sex, and very few men looking for a relationship. Of course, I was looking for a relationship. Which meant wading through piles, and piles of unsolicited dick pics. Along with many wasted… Continue reading Virginity Really Doesn’t Matter…Seriously it Doesn’t